Thursday, 8 May 2014

Day 8: A book that I'd like to read...

Hi All

This was an easy post for me as I absolutely love reading and have so many books that I would like to read, the hardest part was choosing one from my long list of titles! I finally chose:


I am a huge Jane Austen fan and I like to read any modern novels that relate to her, or any spin offs! Some are really good, others not so! But I like to give them a go. I have wanted to read 'Austenland' for a good while now and I'm not sure why I haven't even bought it. I think I am a bit dubious about it as it has had quite a bit of hype from Austen fans and I often find that things don't live up to the hype and I am disappointed when I experience them for myself. I often feel that I should have been born and lived in Austen times so know that this would be the perfect novel for me....watch this space, I may eventually get to read it and do a review for all of you to see! Here is the blurb if you're interested:

Jane is a young New York woman who can never seem to find the right man-perhaps because of her secret obsession with Mr. Darcy, as played by Colin Firth in the BBC adaptation of Pride and Prejudice. When a wealthy relative bequeaths her a trip to an English resort catering to Austen-obsessed women, however, Jane's fantasies of meeting the perfect Regency-era gentleman suddenly become more real than she ever could have imagined. Is this total immersion in a fake Austenland enough to make Jane kick the Austen obsession for good, or could all her dreams actually culminate in a Mr. Darcy of her own?

Looking forward to seeing what you would like to read and possibly adding them to my very long list too!

Thanks for popping by.
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Arline
xx

Wednesday, 7 May 2014

Day 7: Where are you writing from today?

Hi All


My post today is written in between feeds for my 17 week old, snuggles with my Charlie cat (seen above) and finishing the laundry! I actually find myself having more time since being on maternity leave, than when I was at work to actually blog which is crazy! My sofa is definitely my favourite place to blog and I am really enjoying getting back into it....just need to find a little more time to bloghop! I am hoping still to be off for another five/six months maternity if funds will allow, but it has really shown me how much quality time I am missing out on. Not only time to spend with my family and friends but also time just to do something that I enjoy like blogging and crafting, catching up on a book or two. It has me questioning whether I want to go back to the work life I had before having a baby or whether I will just adapt naturally...but perhaps this is for another post!

I just thought I'd steal a few moments to update my blog and reflect on the challenge so far! I am really enjoying blogging about a variety of topics and being able to reflect on different areas and read about what other people's thoughts are. This challenge has introduced me to some fabulous blogs which I hope to continue reading after May has ended. So thanks Sunday for a fab challenge!

Hugs
Arline
xx

Tuesday, 6 May 2014

Day 6: A favourite photo of me.

Hi All

For those of you who know me in 'real life,' you will know how hard this topic was! I absolutely hate having my picture taken and rarely like any of them lol! But I was up for the challenge and have found this photo:


This photo was taken at my hen party (obviously!) nearly four years ago now! I really like this photo for a variety of different reasons. Firstly, I like it because I was pretty happy with my weight at this point, I'd slimmed down a little (I'm never going to be a size 8!) and felt confident in myself-unlike now since having a baby recently! Secondly, it reminds me of the fun we had at a party that was just what I wanted-I am not a person that goes out every weekend, we had a night of pampering from a mobile beauty therapist and some fun and games with a buffet at my house-it was such a giggle. Finally, I look so relaxed and that's how I was, the stress of work wasn't getting to me, I was excited about getting married and I was enjoying a drink which I rarely do!

So there is a rare picture that I like of myself! At the moment, as I bet most new Mums, I feel a bit down about how I look, am back on the diet and trying to pull myself out of the PJs and no make up stage lol! Not that I would change having a baby for the world but my goal is to get back to how I was and how I felt in this piccie!

Hope you have enjoyed my ramblings today!
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Arline
xx

Monday, 5 May 2014

Day 5-'How to' encourage young readers!

Hi All    
                                         

I hoped to get this post up when it was World Book Day but didn't quite manage it so I thought it may be a good post to share for my Day 5 of Blog Everyday In May!

I have always loved to read, something that our family were all encouraged to do as children. I have many fond memories of visiting the small library that used to be a short walk away from where we lived when I was younger. Probably my greatest memories were reading Roald Dahl's books, Matilda being my absolute favourite. It was no surprise that I loved English at school. I was able to let my imagination run wild (something that unfortunately is not often the case nowadays in schools) and would get consumed in the literature we were reading at the time. It will come to no surprise to you that I went on to study Literature at A-level, degree level and then became an English teacher in a secondary school!


Part of my job as an English teacher is to encourage reading, a harder job than it may sound, particularly when faced with 12 year old boys who hate anything other than their X Box or 16 year olds whose minds are full of make-up, football dreams and TOWIE, rather than wanting to get consumed by the tale of George and Lennie in Steinbeck's 'Of Mice and Men.' I have gathered together a few tips for anyone who may be struggling to get their child to read or engage their classes in a text. Before I carry on, I am in no way saying that I am an expert in this field! In fact, I have come across many pupils who I have found it difficult, if not downright impossible, to get them to sit and read a book in the library, but I hope that this is in some way useful to someone somewhere, and it is also good for me to reflect on ways to encourage reading to remind myself not to give up hope when faced with a class who despise what they consider, old fashioned and the 'boring' art of reading!

1. Don't think that they have to sit down with a book as thick as 'War and Peace!'


It is easy for us to get caught up in what is 'real' literature and what is or isn't worth reading. Many of us have been brought up with the classics, Dickens, Bronte, Austen, Hardy, but just because your child has not got their head in one of the more traditional novels, does not mean that what they are reading is not worthwhile. Current teenage fiction is fantastic. It often deals with real-life situations, issues that teenagers are interested in, and will often have a varied vocabulary and interesting writing style which will allow young adults to thrive as a reader. Issues such as teenage pregnancy, stress, bullying and even drug abuse can be discussed through these novels, in a way that is not overly controversial and is suited to the youth of today. These books may not be extremely long, they may not be what you read at school and they may not be what you consider as 'literature,' but they will not only learn new vocabulary, construction of a written text, but also they will learn something about feelings, about difficult situations but in a 'safe' way. However, not all teenage fiction teaches you the lessons of life. Look at the 'Twilight' phenomenon-not necessarily a series of extremely well written texts but a topic that engaged youngsters and encouraged them to get reading. I have taught many a pupil whose interest in reading started with this series and has now progressed to many other texts and they have never looked back.

2. Don't disregard 'other' less traditional reading materials.



If your child is sitting reading a magazine, or a gaming manual or even an online blog, as long as the content is appropriate and you are happy with the content of what is within these less traditional reading materials, then this is all reading. These are more modern ways of reading. If your child picks up a gaming manual they will be faced with a new set of vocabulary, a different style of writing for a specific purpose and above all else, they will be reading something that is of interest to them. If the only thing you can get your child to read is a copy of Vogue, then let them! Don't discourage them. It is amazing how much they learn from this kind of text and how much they can apply to their studies. In fact, part of the GCSE for English is looking at Non-Fiction Texts and being able to identify the purpose, target audience and the form it takes. Reading advertisements, newspapers, leaflets etc. needs to be encouraged as much as encouraging the reading of fictional texts.

3. Identify their interests and use them to encourage reading.


If your child is adamant that there is no book interesting enough for them to read, use their hobbies/pastimes to prove them wrong. If they enjoy horse riding, find them a non-fiction book based around the care of a horse or even a fictional book such as 'War Horse' by Morpurgo to grab their attention. If you are finding it hard to drag them away from their computer games, buy them one of the 'You Choose' books where they have to choose the path that the characters take in the story. Such as 'You Choose if You Live or Die: Virus Outbreak' by Simon Chapman. Not only will they have the satisfaction of being in control of the story but they will also be able to change the ending many times, just like in a computer game, by taking a different route each time. The vast array of topics that are available to teenagers (and younger readers) now should allow a parent/teacher to find something to engage even the most reluctant of readers.

4. Start off slow.



Don't expect your child/pupil to be volunteering to read the full works of Charles Dickens within a month. They need to build up not only their reading skills but also their confidence to be able to read a variety of texts. Some children find it extremely difficult to concentrate on a lengthy text, especially independently, so don't be surprised if some days they want to give up! Encourage them to start off with a selection of short stories, then maybe a short novel and build up to something a little longer, perhaps reading it together-you reading one chapter one night, and them reading another the next night. Try to establish a routine of them factoring in reading into their nightly schedule. Perhaps 30 minutes before they go to sleep at night or 30 minutes as they return home from school. I know with the hustle and bustle of life that this isn't always easy! In fact, it is something that I am always striving to do myself but we can only try!

5. Encourage the use of the imagination!


Many people think that this is only important for young children, particularly when they are playing, but this is just as important for teenagers. In order to enjoy reading fiction, we must be able to use our imagination. Many books are now turned into films but just watching the film does not allow us to visualise the locations, characters and situations for ourselves-it does this for us. Surely this makes us lazy readers? How many of us who have actually read the Harry Potter books agree that they are better than the films? It doesn't necessarily mean that we didn't enjoy the films-I loved them! But nothing is as good as reading the text and using our imagination to visualise what Lord Voldemort looks like or what a Hippogriff looks like in real life. Not only is it important to stretch our imagination when reading in order to truly understand the text and the descriptions given, it is also something that will help our children to be able to write more imaginatively and more creatively. An ability to be able to do this is important, not only to improve and widen their writing skills but also to explore life, as corny as it sounds! To have a good imagination is a survival skill.....how often do we enjoy going off into our own little worlds, not in a weird way, but to be used as a way of escaping real life which can be hard going at the best of times!

Those would be my top tips! As I said, I am no expert but these are just a few things that have helped me encourage pupils and have given to parents to help encourage reading at home. It can be extremely difficult in an age where technology often is the preferred source of entertainment. My advice? Invest in a kindle for your family...not a kindle fire where they may get distracted by other apps but the old style where the only thing they can do with it is read! Lol! Failing that, try to embrace technology and how this may aid your child to read rather than see it as the enemy.

Remember, as Dr. Seuss taught us:


 'The more that you read the more things that you will know.
 The more you learn the more places you will go.'

Thanks for stopping by.
Hugs
Arline
xx

Sunday, 4 May 2014

Day 4: Compliments

Hi All


I found the topic for today really difficult. The prompt was to discuss a recent compliment, or one that you have been given that has stuck with you. I really couldn't think of any that I have been given recently or even any that I have given out recently, apart from telling my friend how lovely she looked in a dress she was trying on for my daughter's christening. So it got me thinking, do we compliment each other enough? Do we acknowledge compliments when they are given to us? What is the purpose of a compliment?

My challenge to you is to sit down for five minutes and try and list the last five compliments you paid to someone......hard isn't it? I know in my life that I have family and friends that I love dearly and appreciate all that they do for me, but do I ever compliment on them? As a teacher, I give lots of compliments to my students, I try to find the positive in every piece of work they complete, but do I do this in my personal life? Did I compliment my husband the last time he baked his wonderful pastry? Did I compliment my Mum on her beautiful knitting skills when she gave us many knitted clothes for our baby girl? No. Why? Because I'm selfish or arrogant, feel awkward about saying this out loud? I believe it is because we take it all for granted. I take it for granted that my husband knows he can bake pastry well and my Mum can knit fantastic clothing-what would the benefit of telling them be? Well, perhaps they would like to know I appreciate their skills, that I acknowledge how much time and effort has been spent on whatever the final result may be. Would it boost their self-esteem? Would it make them smile? Is that not worth it in itself? This isn't the case all of the time of course. I often compliment how someone looks or a specific talent such as a great voice/dancer. These things seem to lend themselves to compliments but maybe we should consider the smaller things in life and those hidden talents we often miss.

It also got me thinking to whether we can always accept compliments. I find it really difficult to accept nice things being said about me to my face. I have no idea why this is, I often think that the person is not being sincere or I get really embarrassed. Isn't it nice to hear nice things about you? Isn't it nice to receive a compliment? Of course it is! It is always lovely to hear that the cake you last baked tasted lovely or that you look beautiful today, but are we sometimes too modest and find these kind of compliments hard to take? Is this a British thing, a girl thing or just a 'me' thing? Lol! Who knows! Perhaps we should be more open to receiving compliments, for receiving help and allowing others to praise us-not in an arrogant way but in a way that we feel appreciated in all aspects of our life.

The dictionary definition of a compliment is: 'a remark that expresses approval or respect.' Do we show enough respect to each other? Are we always seeking approval in society? I know I often am without even thinking about it. But what happens if we are seeking approval and we don't receive it? For me it often leads to a hit to my confidence or self-esteem. You would think that in 2014 we might be more independent of each other, that this wouldn't matter, and it may not to some. For me, it's important what other people think of me, I want to be respected and I don't want to feel like an outsider. Is it important to you?

Writing this post has made me question all of these things and made me want to make a few changes. Firstly, I am going to try and pay a compliment to at least one person a day. Secondly, I am going to try and accept what people compliment me on and not question it. And finally, I will seek to respect myself and others but not always worry so much about what others may think.

This is quite a philosophical post but I hope it has been interesting and made you question your own experience with compliments! I will try not to be as deep and gloomy tomorrow (lol) but would love to hear your thoughts.

Hugs
Arline
xx

Saturday, 3 May 2014

Day 3: Less/More list.

Hi All

Third day, doing well! Today I need to write a 'less/more list' which I have never done before! So here goes, hoping that I am on the write track!


Less watching - More reading
Less snacking - More veggies
Less moaning - More celebrating
Less spending - More saving
Less worrying - More living
Less hoping - More doing
Less perfection - More myself
Less technology - More talking
Less sofa - More walking
Less regrets - More goals

I hope that is the right kind of thing! I've tried to link it to my goals or current changes I'm making in my life. Hope they make sense as some may seem a little cryptic! Would love to see your less/more lists. I stuck to 10 but probably could have done more lol!

See you tomorrow
Hugs
Arline
xx

Friday, 2 May 2014

Day 2: What's in your cup?

Hi All



Here's to my second day posting for the 'Blog every day in May' challenge! The topic is 'What's in your cup?' My daily drinks aren't that adventurous lol. Most of the time I drink just normal tea....I'm not too fussy on brand, at the moment we are drinking Typhoo tea as my Nan gave me some when I saw her last. My Nan is a legend....she buys food when it is on offer and then passes it all out to us grandkids when we go to visit! Her bedroom is like a shop....we call it 'Nanasburys' ;) I am currently trying to lose some weight so I am trying to drink lots of water, again not too interesting! So, instead of concentrating on 'What's IN my cup' I thought I'd show you my actual cup I'm drinking from lol! Hope this is of some interest lol!

I have a bit of an extensive mug collection....we really need to purge the mug cupboard...but there is something about a nice mug that makes me feel happy! Sometimes when I'm feeling a bit low or just need cheering up, I will select a certain mug and it makes the drink taste much nicer. Silly I know! My favourite mugs are my Emma Bridgewater mugs. They are just so pretty. I've never bought one for myself as they are pretty pricy, but I have been lucky enough to receive three as gifts. One from my brother-in-law, one from a friend and one from one of my students. I really like the unusual shape of the mugs and I love the sentiments on them. Here is my current collection:


An Emma Bridgewater tea set is definitely on my wish list! My favourite is probably the polka dots. I am lucky enough to live near to the actual factory so get to have a rummage in the factory shop sometimes! Often just as good and you can get a little bargain or two. I love giving her items as presents as they definitely seem like something special.

Well, I hope you enjoyed this post! It does seem a little random but I guess some of these topics will be a little different. It allows us all to get to know each other a little better which is great! I'd love to see your favourite mugs or what is currently in your cup.

Until tomorrow...
Hugs
Arline
xx